It’s December 1st, 2018, and it’s a day of firsts.
Since Gary first came to his Forsight home in 2014, he refused to leave his home, overwhelmed by the noise he’d be confronted by the moment he stepped outside his door. His daily routine was rotating between the couch, his bed, and the bathroom. Car rides were almost unheard of. When he could avoid them no longer, car rides triggered fear, anxiety and resistance.
Today, Gary steps into his home’s van for his first 3-hour trip to the Central Coast. Sitting alongside chatty Sharon and his ASW’s, Gary patiently sits, as the soundscape changes from the hustle and bustle of Blacktown to the breeze against the crashing waves on the Central Coast.
Today, he will be visiting his parents at their home for the first time in 9 years.
Gary knocks on his parents’ door, as his active support workers watch eagerly on. As the door opens, Gary is immediately met with the sound of cries, screaming and a tight hug, as Iris and John hold their son in front of their home for the first time in almost a decade.
Since that day, Gary has gone to visit his parents at least three times in the span of four months.
This moment was one year in the making, through encouragement, belief and active support.
Things that would induce fear, now enrich Gary’s daily life.
Patricia, one of Gary’s ASW’s, describes him as a sweetheart. While it was not an easy journey, with his ASWs’ support, Gary was slowly encouraged to go into the car, and outdoors more often. From stepping out into the yard to going into town, the distances he travelled continued to reach new lengths.
Patricia proudly says, “I’m amazed by Gary’s progress”, as he flourishes into an even better version of himself every day.
From sitting on his couch for hours on end, he now spends his time visiting different places, whether it be a walk by the river or at the park with his arm linked to an ASW, doing one of his favourite things—running!